So usually when someone would be asked about their dream guy they list physical appearances. But I just want to take a minute to speak for myself and the rest of the guys and girls out there. Why should the way someone looks matter? It means nothing if they end up being a total douche. I’d rather have someone who understands that I’m a human and I won’t live up to conventional beauty. There will be messy hair days, I don’t want to wear makeup in public, 75% of the time I don’t want to shave my legs. My dream guy can look however the hell he wants, because I don’t give a shit. If girls want to be accepted for the way they are, then so should boys. Beauty only goes so deep, it’s what lies under it that matters. I would much rather be with a selfless nobody than a selfish prince. And I think that’s the way it should be.
Stop saying “I love you”. Please. You have no idea how much it hurts when you say that but show that you don’t (and you will never know). Don’t say I love you and then when we are in the same place, NOT come and see me.
Don’t say you love me and never take the time to see how I am.
Don’t say you love me and then only call or text me when you need something.
What you mean is: you love that I am always there for you (and always will be). You love who I am for you and what I do for you. You love what I have to offer and what I give of myself to you.
Ha love as it is defined today is selfishness.
I’m sorry, I was raised where it is selflessness. Giving of yourself, time, energy, money, talents, gifts, strength, emotions, heart, soul to another person. Expecting nothing of them, irrespective of who they are and how they act. I love you because I’ve chosen to love you and that won’t change no matter what you do (I’ve proven that) but please, please stop saying you love me. You use me. That’s okay. I am here for you to be used. But don’t claim that it’s love, it isn’t.
I love you. Always.